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What stays secret, what the site can see and how to lock things down.

Featured Privacy Oct 7, 2026 · 2 min read The Case for Keeping Your Crush List Private Ranking people is normal. Ranking people in public is a disaster. Why a crush list should be the most private document you own. Read the tip

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Pick up to 3 people from your college. Nobody knows unless they picked you too.

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